Get divorced after 60 – BBC News

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The number of people divorcing in later life has been increasing at a time when divorce rates overall have been falling. What’s behind the phenomenon of the “silver splitters”?

“When I proposed to her, I nearly straight away regretted having done that.”

But the participation was announced on the front page of his local paper and Peter felt he couldn’t back out. “I was weak-willed at the time, ” he says.

Peter married in 1967. Thirty-six years later, at persons under the age of 64, he did back out.

“I only bundled what I could into the car and ran. I do remember her standing on the doorstep. And I did feel sorry – even guilty – then that I was hurting her, really.”

It’s the kind of private moment of pain that’s part of their own nationals trend.

Divorce among people aged 60 and over in England and Wales has risen since the 1990 s, in agreement with the Office of National Statistics – while among the rest of the population, it has fallen( with a slight rise in 2012 ).

In 2011, virtually 9,500 men in this age group divorced – an increase of nearly three-quarters compared with 20 years earlier. The tendency for women is similar. And it’s not just because there are more older people now.

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The catalyst for Peter was a relationship he started with his piano partner, Anne. Practising duos for the church choir, they fell in love.

“We are good friends, and that’s something I didn’t have with my first spouse, ” tells Anne, who objective her first marriage when she was in her 50 s. “And we are capable of laugh when things go wrong.”

Research suggests a big driver of the increase in “silver splitters” is increasing life expectancy.

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